Everyone's a winner

It's that time of year again where the school sports day is in the diary and we pray for some sunshine to watch the little ones put their heart and soul into the races.

I have been shocked after speaking with friends how many schools now do not allow there to be winners for the races, they operate a policy where everyone is a winner and it's taking part that matters.

Of course it is important for children to appreciate that taken part is wonderful and they can have lots of fun with their peers. However, taking the competitive element out of sports day to me is just out right crazy.

Where is the life lesson here for children? Is real life like this, where everyone wins?

Of course not, we all have different talents and all excel at different things and I feel it is important for children to learn that sometimes you simply don't win. I believe it is important for them to learn the skill of being pleased for someone else, who at the end of the day is better at you at that event.

I was thrilled to hear that Miss H's school will be awarding medals for 1st, 2nd and 3rd places in the races and stickers for those taking part. I think it's important for children to learn about real life in this fun and social setting.

Right, time to dig out my trainers ready for the mums race.....wish me luck!